Humble is for Suckers
I’m awesome, so every now and again, someone will say to me, “I’ve heard great things about you.” I’ll reply, “Of course. I’m awesome.” The person to whom I am speaking makes some sideways comment like, “I see you’re humble, too.” All sarcasm. Great. But here’s the thing: since when is being humble a good thing?
I’m here to tell you that humble is for suckers. Here are some reasons why.
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You spend a great deal of your life trying to convince people you’re awesome. You try to copy behaviors of people you think are awesome and tell jokes other people told you so that people will think you’re funny. You groom yourself so you’re not repulsive, bathe so you don’t stink, and get your hair cut so people don’t mistake you for the unibomber. Your mom taught you manners so you wouldn’t offend anyone, and you otherwise spend most of your time trying to like yourself and get others to do likewise. Why on earth would you then waste all that effort by using your words – the most tangible things people have to really recall impressions of you – to tell them that you’re NOT awesome? Do you have a Sisyphus complex?
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